CONTROL 

People who feel the need to control others, with their thinking, lifestyle and mindsets, Don’t have control over themselves. Control freaks are new-age manipulators, often using sarcasm and put-down others to inflate fear and self-doubts in the victims. Anyone manipulating this tactic to make others feel unworthy shouldn’t be acknowledged in our positive alignment. Whether it’s one’s ego or controlling nature, start to defer to that behavior. Shaming tactics can be very subtle such as fierce looks or glances, unpleasant tone of voice, rhetorical  comments, and subtle sarcasm. Control freaks can make one feel ashamed for even daring to challenge them. It is an effective way to foster a sense of inadequacy in the victim. If there is someone in your  life to whom you can’t speak the truth. And you walk on eggshells to avoid upsetting, you are being controlled or manipulated. Whether you receive or deliver this pattern. It will hinder your internal progress.  

BE APPROVED  

I am who I am. Your approval is not needed. We don’t need anyone’s appreciation or acceptance to be good enough. When someone denies or abandons you because of their convenience, it’s not about you. It’s  about them and their insecurities, restrictions, and requirements. You don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s endorsement of you – it’s something inherent. You exist, and  therefore, you matter. You’re allowed to voice your opinions and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your necessities and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the fact that who you are is exactly enough.  And you’re allowed to subtract anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise. Don’t seek approval, seek like-minded people with whom you can have an energy exchange to nourish one another. All of us are born with special powers, what inspires you will bring you close to your  strength. Focus on deep intuitions to be guided further in this beautiful journey called life. Validate your inhibitions, that’s the only approval your higher self is seeking.  

JUDGE  

Judgments are the first sign of being illiterate. It’s easy to judge, and  More difficult to understand. Understanding mandates compassion, forbearance, and a willingness to acknowledge that good spirits sometimes choose inadequate methods. Through judging, we separate. Through understanding, we grow. We live in a society where sinners judge sinners for sinning differently. It’s a group of commoners who suffer from superior complexity. Where everyone is quick in judging 

with the slowest willingness of understanding. Before we assume, we  must learn the facts. Before we hurt someone, feel their pain. Before we  speak, think about the wider spectrum of the human psyche. Everyone has untold stories of pain and sadness that makes them love and live a  little differently than you do. Ego judges people for the choices they make when the soul wonders about the options they must have had to choose from.  

To acknowledge the power of POSITIVITY  

I am my own devil’s advocate to push out feelings that aren’t positive. In search of my normal, I seek a life which is balancing my inner strength with the actions of my outer world. I was born from the creation of supreme power. I am made of the brightest stars and the widest oceans. I am made of the highest mountains and tallest trees. I am made of magic and dreams. Wishes and light. I come from a tribe of  heroes, warriors, healers, and protectors who nurture mother earth. I am made of good spirits flowing through my veins, I am made of energy which is eternal and carries infinite possibilities. Despite all the odds, I  am here on this earth for a reason. And my reason is to give back what I was created from. To seek a bigger purpose, to heal the wounds of the innocents. To create a soulful balanced life which respects every living being on this earth rather than slaughtering animals to put food on the table. Rather than breaking the spirits of the weaker ones, rather than fueling violence and anger into negative minds. When I seek good, my will for good gets better. When I silence my mind, my heart can hear what my soul seeks. When I talk softly, it has more impact than the loudness within me. When I eat sensibly, it’s coming from a more peaceful environment than it’s traumatic passing of nature. When I breathe deeply, I am aligned with my inner awakening. When I dress  ethically, I don’t only take care of the habitat but also provide breathing  to the planet – my only home. When I act fearlessly in facing my weaknesses, they turn into my strength slowly but surely. When I work patiently towards my goals, I am gaining an experience of failure and  facing my abilities. When I think creatively, I am returning my human debts to the supreme creator of all. When I behave with grace, grace  finds me back with respect in her company. When I earn honestly I feel  an enormous amount of self-worth. When I save regularly, I am a caretaker of every cell of life and energy living in this soil. When I spend  intelligently, I am saving every waste damaging my surroundings. It’s the good in me which needs to be empowered so it brings the greatness deep within me to the surface of a very living existence. 

“According to Vedanta, there are only two symptoms of enlightenment,  just two indications that a transformation is taking place within you toward a higher consciousness. The first symptom is that you stop worrying. Things don’t bother you anymore. You become light-hearted and full of joy. The second symptom is that you encounter more and  more meaningful coincidences in your life, more and more synchronicities. And this accelerates to the point where you experience the miraculous.”  

 – Deepak Chopra